From what i understood in your question you are talking about enabling Intercompany balancing flexfield qualifier for the 'Company' segment.
If my understanding is correct
Apart from option 1 nd 2 the main idea behind this is to use the company segment as a Balancing segment for the Consolidations ....
Also allowing imbalanced journal entries with Suspense account created for the difference amount is the usual business practice....But only for the same Set of Books.
Please correct me if i m wrong....